This is another one of my will write for an hour and this posts commissioner is Elaine Vinegault Her Question:
Can you please write about how you think various forms of oppression/marginalization/disenfranchisement/ etc. are linked or are not linked? Thanks :)
Les Sorcieres,Las Brouhas, Vampires , Bloodsuckers, Ghosts, Invisible Men.
When it comes down to it, those are the things that run the machine. These caricatures and invented mythologies are what NEED to be spun around humans when you justify not treating them with any sort of consideration or respect.
Be it gender , race,class, ethnicity the common link about oppressing people is that they can never be what they ARE but instead MUST be what fits the narrative.
You can't justify not paying someone a living wage , without placing a value on their life. You can't justify becoming someones spokesman without affirming that they can not speak for themselves.
It's the basics of advertising, create a need and fill it.
This predefinition of people without any actual regard to their self definition allows you to define
yourself by being it's opposite , or in a quick fix completely invalidate them.
This is the skill of ALL oppression, and it is taught
WELL
Except because it is fundamentally based on creating pleasant historical fictions
and in turn validates our long held practices of creating pleasant personal myths.
SO much so that even those of us with progressive politics see no problem using the exact same methods when dealing with each other .
Because it is so proven to work.
Switch some code words , spook and ape become "urban youth", wetback is " immigrant", etc
and it is a common belief that as long as we don't speak of them with the disdain we once did or we ourselves don't know the horrible history ,or more importantly
don't readily identify with that history.
We are better than those who preceded us and champions for the "righteous".
Create the myths and monsters , malevolent and benevolent and anything you say afterwards will serve you well.
If they fight it , it proves they don't know what your talking about. If they go along it gives you power. Remember the preeminent power god gave Adam was to give the beasts names.
And why not it's worked for 800 years
This is where oppressions marginalization intersect, prevent people from self defining or declare those definitions invalid and they WILL never work as they can.
At Feministe this happened twice.
Ren Ev posted this .
I read through it and promptly ran for the sidelines. I love Ren and read her regularly but do not comment because I frankly can not in many cases participate.
No matter what the battle lines is drawn , the sides at this point are set, and while yes in a cake or death way I am a sex pos, I am not in itthe debate.It just doesn't involve me. The main purpose of this debate as long as it's about one versus another , without an examination of the stories and the histories that go along with it. It's always going to be a repetition of ingrained prejudices , half tinged rhetoric and shame.
Trinity in this comment towards the end after the haymakers were thrown and the rhetoric flew :
Yep. For some people it’s a luxury to be able to be the Hairy Feminist and not lose your job. For some people it’s easy to be.
Conversely it is also a luxury to be able to even remotely live up to the idea of a conventional beauty . OR that one can afford to do all those things to support EITHER aesthetic. Or that not subscribing to the conventional OR the hairy feminist can impair your appeal to other progressives but your very ability to feed your kids?
But those are questions we don't ask of myths and monsters.Those are conversations that happen between people, and as long as we using the same invective and methodology that is used to form us as myths and monsters we will continue to repeat the rhetorics that cause us to have them.
and then Nanette broke it down and flipped it around some.
While I won't go into the specifics of why her post is seminal ( because I said one hour) but the h problems of the mythos that comes from pretending we do not use the same methodologies to oppress others that are used to oppress us is played out both here and on this thread at Pandagon. ( I would like to insert a note a of sheer amazement at the fortitude and excellence of justicewalks in that thread )
Now LLoyd Webber originally linked me to this way early in the chaos and I flipped off something snide and kind of evil and kept it moving.
I expect nothing from these conversations anymore, and at the moment I had looked at it no one I knew or cared for was under any undue stress or attack. But seriously I became drawn in by the use of the term racist and the ensuing rhetoric.
Nanette's post crystallized it for me as did the path of the commentary on both posts.
Racist becomes the worst thing anyone can be for the non POC and non allied posters. Because it is deemed by THEM to be such an effrontery that any and all tactics to DESTROY those who would bring it up are ok.
The myth of the racist rather than the actual experience of those who rather gently and respectfully breeched the subject of it was more important than dialogue . By committing so virulently to absolving Amanda of ANY racist intentions or culpability they hit EVERY single tired meme , of class, race, and emotional condescension they could. Even so much as going
Essentially if JW wasn't black maybe she wouldn't be giving Amanda such a hard time. And if she would just realize that all white people who purposely ignored her experiences weren't mean she too could ignore centuries of ingrained and consistent racism
Maybe if Amanda had the same life experiences that JW has had, she’d see it as racist. But on the same token, if JW would bother to honestly look at it from Amanda’s perspective, a racist subtext wouldn’t be found.**Of course, that would require acknowledging that not all white people are racists, but I suspect that’s not possible in JW’s case, which pretty much makes her comments pointless in that strawman kinda way.
What was missed in that ENTIRE conversation that Nanette captured so beautifully is taht for a t least a good portion of the thread the actual message was
" Yes you did something racist with a racist history BUT we still want to work it out with you"
But these were not people they were myths and monsters. So what could can from kill joys mouth or an infanticide advocate, but non intelligence and buzz killing?
The fact that these monsters and myths are only characterized b y their ability to have soul crushing knowledge of a racist trope, that i have taught and been aware of as originating in the 17th century.
That they would not be satisfied by the BIG STEP of taking it to her publisher, but ask that her words be specific and real and presented as they are and taken with the same care she expects us to show her book.
Not something you give to myths and monsters.
And whats more that when Nanette writes about her OWN experience , it is assumed she is talking about Amanda. Myths and montsters aren't the namers they create nothing
And here is where we the problem of myths and monsters not just for the oppressed but for their "creators" happens..
Even in fable myths and monsters must be handled specifically. Myths and monsters are even in their fiction their own creatures , and develop life and loves on their own.
If you create us as such we will develop something amazing , the ability to act both within your fiction AND within the truth.
And the truth
Hurts.
Until systems of oppression are truly shelved for the prominence of humanity it matters not what the ism schism that the privileged hold onto. They will always be joy killed when the myths and monsters screw up the narratives.
But so will we if we accept it until we are able to look at EACH other out side of these narratives we will never do the work of untangling ourselves from this bloody cosmology.
or
"Ain't nothing good gon' come to ya , til you do right by me"- Queen Latifah
Une Sorciere Negre
19 comments:
Sigh. There are just some folk I have no desire to appear as human to anymore...not like they'll ever see it.
Sounds bitter, I know, but hey, it's true.
and you know what ren.
COnsidering that thread and the history of it's exchange
Completely understandable.
I have told more than one " white person willing to learn" after one to many shots to the jaw
No just no.
IT's not even so much about personal willingness anymore
it's about really comical if they wasn't so sad repetitions of the exact same tactics people claim to be fighting against.
If we treat people the way we have beentreated ( in a political organization sense not a kindergarten share sense)
we will continue to fail.
And the amusing thing is that in many places and many ways folks who have done new things
ARE SUCEEDING
but that would mean for other folks to not be primary or not be the most important thing en creation
and well as you can say form personal experience
SOme of em won't get there with us
If at all
This is great, BA. I'm trying to get to feministe to put this in the comments (but it's down for now), cuz you take my little bit and surround it with just oodles of good stuff.
Well, and myths and monsters, which are a couple of my favorite things.
This is what so many are either incapable of seeing, or just refuse:
When it comes down to it, those are the things that run the machine. These caricatures and invented mythologies are what NEED to be spun around humans when you justify not treating them with any sort of consideration or respect.
Well, and the rest of your post too.
Oh, I forgot to mention... R. Mildred on all this.... in lolcat.
It's hilarious.
Thanks for the thoughtful post--it's a really useful way to conceive of how all this stuff unfolds.
I have told more than one " white person willing to learn" after one to many shots to the jaw
No just no.
See, that's the thing. When a white person is saying, "But I'm willing to learn!", there's always this unspoken "As long as you do everything I think you should and make sure not to make me feel bad about anything I like to do or think."
A lot of us do learn to move past that kind of white entitlement (and in large part because there are some people with enough rather masochistic patience to keep helping the white folks through it). But, yeah, it's immediately clear a person hasn't gotten to that point when they're saying, "But I'm willing to learn!"--as if that were somehow worthy of accolades or if it did anything to lessen the impact of the racism they're indulging in/encouraging.
Thanks for the thoughtful post, BlackAmazon! I've had that same reaction to white people (men more often than women) who say "i'm willing to learn!" but actually aren't! And of course, I've been guilty of doing that same crap myself, and I try to catch myself in that doublespeak, or call myself on words that come from a place of ignorance. I call them my gringa moments. Like, "oh, i'm sorry i said that offensive thing. i wasn't thinking. i was having a gringa moment."
CK you hit on a very importnat thing that has happened againa nd again with these things is that teh people who it happens to
HAVE EMOTIONS TOO
It's the essence of getting gut kicked assaulted emotionally and then told
oh heres a bandaid and a wetwipe
NOW teach me how you didn't curl over and die after i assaulted you???
or can I make my responses to attacks less defendable.
or and this one is so common and so DISRESPECTFUL aND DUMB and even more hurtful cause it comes nearly solely in defense of white women to women of color
is the
But but ( insert white woman of the conflict)its hard to learn all this much
SHES TRYING
SHES CRYING
midn you the last to times i got into any battel like that ( on and off line)
My bets friend got messages that consisted of
I can't breathe
Why don't i learn and
WAHHHHHHH
*sniffle*
So my feelings aint im[portant
GREAT
Speaking of myths...here's a good one...
"You can't justify becoming someones spokesman without affirming that they can not speak for themselves."
Nailed it. As per usual.
Accusations of racism, in the hands of some whites, become a new way to exploit POCs... blacks, particularly, are used in such discussions to judge the coolness/enlightenment factor of whites, by other whites. In other words, whites are STILL the important people in the discussion.
These racism discussions therefore become, once again, how WHITE people feel, about white intentions, white experience, etc etc etc...
On Pandagon, DailyKos and other liberal arenas, it always turns into a referendum on whiteness, but offers next-to-nothing for the people who were the catalyst for the conversation in the first place.
On Pandagon, DailyKos and other liberal arenas, it always turns into a referendum on whiteness, but offers next-to-nothing for the people who were the catalyst for the conversation in the first place.
Well why should it? No one ever asks the tomato if it wants to be in a bloody mary...
Thank you.
You're right. The advertising "create a need" is an apt analogy to the political tactic of fitting chesspieces into fairytales. Eloquently analyzed and laid out as always!
and myths and monsters, which are a couple of my favorite things.
me too.
the problem, as i see it, is when people stop recognizing the need as such; they still get their myths and monsters, they just become turned into concrete, which is deadly.
"No live organism can continue for long to exist sanely under conditions of absolute reality; even larks and katydids are said, by some, to dream..."
--Shirley Jackson
as for "willing to learn:" show, don't tell. You engage people in a way that shows you've been paying attention to what they're actually saying. They correct you on something, you nod, file it away for later. This is what any good student does. Do you go to formal school and say to the teacher, I'M WILLING TO LEARN! I'M WILLING TO LEARN!! but then when sie calls on you come up blank, start throwing spitballs at someone else, or whine about "it's too haaarrrrrrrd?"
I just re-read this. It makes me think about a lot of things. One of which is, how I do this when I'm afraid of people, of individuals who feel threatening to me in some way.
Like, sometimes I can have compassion even for people who piss me the fuck off the most. Take Amanda for instance. I got to that site and thread from a link at Shannon's, and when I was first reading it, I was like, uh, this is a parody of white liberals being fucking horrible, right? This isn't actually happening, word for word, like the FFF thing, there's no way this can be real?*
And then I just went to incredulous still, but angry. And angrier, and awestruck and in love with Justicewalks, and happy to see some people I knew and loved there saying some typically smart and relevant things. But I noticed that I felt not-threatened by Amanda, because the way she was acting seemed so *weak* to me, I don't know how else to put it. I couldn't stand her on the one hand because of the way she prioritized her need to feel...whatever...over the - are you fucking kidding me - present and history of what racism does and is, and people right in front of her telling her it hurts them. And, at the same time, I also felt like, oy, this person, I want to cover my eyes while she trainwrecks herself.
Then there was this other person on the thread who was, I don't know, some woman that no one had ever seemed to have heard of before and she was saying this crazy shit over and over, "defending" Amanda. And I felt fucking hatred in my heart towards her. I thought of her in that monster-way - "she is some kind of creepy zombie who is not even on the same plane of existence as anyone else here, even the other people who pissed me off, and she has got to go!" Not in a sense of thinking it's ever right to kick people out or "get rid of them," but just in the way I sent that wish out into the universe - please fucking make her as powerless as possible so she can not spread her disease.
I have a really hard time reconciling these facts with the fact of wanting to be a person with a good heart. It's not like I think the "good" thing to do is just smile and hold hands with everybody no matter how destructive they are. I'm just saying your essay here made me think about how and why I do what you're talking about. Thanks for writing about it.
*I have only been around these parts of the internet since Memorial Day weekend of this year. This probably makes me sound insane, but when I see things that shock me online, a part of me is always like - how do I even know any of these people are real, or that any of what appears to be happening is even really happening? How do I know this isn't some crazy theater group practicing some kind of online acting weirdness? That only comes up for me when whatever's going on just simply does not compute, for me. Outside of those instances, I never wonder if people I'm dealing with online are real, for the record.
Hey, I know this post is really old, but I just wanted to say thanks for the compliments! I've come to realize, in the months since that show-down, that white women aren't interested in not being racist. They are only interested in not being called racists. What a freeing realization.
Justice walks WELCOME! Thank you for commenting and yeah
Thats in my experience i n a lot of ways apt
YOur ability to not light folks aflame was awe inspiring to me cuas eat that point i owuld have jkust went okay and DONE
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